Udderly Fed Up

08/14/2009 14:19

How do I say goodbye to a guy I know cares for me but doesn’t always know how to show it. We’ve been through a lot and I have stuck by him. How do I try to make him understand where I’m coming from and realize we might be great together? He always tells me not to give up on us but how can I continue? I’ve known him 3 yrs, 2 of which we’ve grown close and have been intimate a lot!! What do I do? Say fu** it and move on???? Uhhhhh confused!! -- Keesh

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Dear Keesh:

Wow. I mean, really: Wow. Why are you putting up with this? This reminds me of an ex I once had: “I love you, but only when it’s convenient for me.”  Now Keesh, go to the mirror. Look at yourself. Ask yourself: is that OK with me? Am I OK with being a convenience? I’d bet you’re not. You don’t need to doubt someone’s love for you. Life is shitty enough without wondering if the person you’re letting inside your life (and you) is really all about you. Now, what does Beyonce say? “You had your turn but now you’re gonna learn what it really feels like to miss me!”          













Dear Keesh:

In the words of Tracy Jordan, “Live every week like it’s Shark Week.”

Your boy toy may be intriguing and exciting, but he’s spent these last 2 “intimate” years preying on your desires in an effort to garner his meal. And you, my dear, are the tasty treat.

Did you ever hear the saying, Why would you pay for a cow if you can get the milk for free? Honey, you’ve been this boys own private milk maid. So why should he dole out commitment or show caring all the time when he knows that when he asks you to come, you’ll be right there to hook him up. So rather than be his sleek, naïve baby seal, why not stand up and be the bad ass shark hunter you should be? Acknowledge your self-worth and cut him off. Because if he really cares for you, he’d be bending over backwards to make sure you felt loved and cared for ALL the time - Not just when it suits him. And if I were you, I’d get out of the water quickly. Because if you keep letting this man keep you on his hook for his whims, a bloody carcass will be all that remains of your self-esteem, dignity, and relationship.   






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