Cheater, Cheater, Pumpkin Eater

07/24/2009 09:47

My boyfriend screwed me over once, I took him back. NOW I just found out yesterday he's been having phone sex with another girl for the past 2 weeks. He's begging me for a 'third' chance, but I can't get hurt again. Help! -- Kaylee

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Dear Kaylee:

Have you heard that old adage: "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" - it applies here. He's going to continue to treat you like shit until you make up your mind that you deserve better and leave his ass. And expect this: when you do decide to leave he's going to become the best boyfriend ever, showering you with attention, flowers, and gifts, because his ego won't be able to stand it. He's a player! Be strong! You should be treated like a queen, not a commoner.

Dear Kaylee:

Look up the term masochism.  Too busy? Let me help. It’s a pleasure in being abused, in suffering. Don’t think it applies to you? Then leave. Because someone who cheats twice will more than likely do it again. So unless you’re “into” suffering (and if you are, that’s totally cool too) then don’t put yourself through the pain you will likely endure when your boyfriend strays again. You deserve better, Kaylee. And the right fit for you won’t put you through this kind of duress.



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